This time change is something I despise. If it brings you some sort of joy though it’s good. Graghpeople be happy and stuff…
Yeah, I get what you mean; in general it is incredibly annoying and slightly pointless. (I do not buy the whole thing about it giving more light in the daytime. I live in the wrong damn country for that.)
But it has a happy bit and I am going to look at it and see it as a happy bit. Finding happy bits is important.
Hahahah the clocks going back in America means that for three weeks I only have to contend with a four-hour time difference!
Ahhh. Ok. Well if you ever need or want to tlak about such things and I’m around I’d be happy to listen or answer things. And I’m glad I coudl give you some new words.
Thank you. I may take you up on that. Because people. Only if you are okay with some of this being the mental equivalent of flailing wildly and trying to make things not exist. And romance shit. Argh.
Like there’s a variety of words for people who identify as women/ciswomen some of the time, but not all the time. Bigender is one. Genderqueer is the umbrella term for all nonbinary genders. Nonbinary is a word too. It all varies though….
Just, like, they are not words which define you as necessarily being cis at any one point I guess. If that’s applicable. Words are good though so thank you.
(Also though finding the right word would mean acknowledging stuff I don’t want to. And stuff. Arghle.)
aondeug replied to your post “Is ‘I don’t like having a prominent chest; it genders me in ways that…”
I feel it’s a valid sentence in each of those cases. Responses need to be tailored for situation and people involved, but it’s a valid thought. Also the wording on the second one is fine with me though others might bitch…Woooords.
Ah, thank you for feedback on wording. I kind of think ‘there ought to be a word’, but there may not be, and that’s confusing, you know? (Unless I am missing a word somewhere. Godsdamn this is confusing.)
And yes indeed. Which ties back to the whole ‘working out which situation this is and how other people tie into it’. Argh this is frustrating. Thank you though.
bi-gray answered to your post “Is ‘I don’t like having a prominent chest; it genders me in ways that…”
I definitely empathize, & it’s a totally valid feeling no matter how you ID. I’ve felt part of each of those groups at various times.
I always think it is valid as long as it is how you feel.
Ah, thank you. :)
caddiewhite answered to your post “Is ‘I don’t like having a prominent chest; it genders me in ways that…”
It’s a valid sentence to me; I am cisgendered but asexual, I get attention I don’t want, and it just doesn’t fit, you know?
Yeah, I know what you mean. And that’s another factor to consider as well.
Is ‘I don’t like having a prominent chest; it genders me in ways that feel inescapable’ a valid sentence?
Is it a valid sentence if you are cisgendered?
If you are sometimes cisgendered? (That isn’t quite the right wording, I don’t think.)
If you have no clue of your gender and it scares you?
Do the acceptable responses to each situation differ?
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